Let’s stop the bus of life for a moment and consider where we’re going. What are we focusing on? What fuels the fire of our lives? What motivates us to get up in the morning? Many people aren’t motivated to get up, they’re compelled to do so by pressing financial obligations. It bothers me how […]
Read moreA friend described Jan’s life (not his real name) as follows:desire Jan’s not doing well, because his wife cheated on him with an upstanding person in the next neighbourhood. His wife is, or was, an upstanding person too. But desire won. She had changed completely and tried to find reasons to divorce him. You can […]
Read moreIf someone asks me if I’m envious, I’ll immediately say no. I want other people to live well. I wish for other people to have and achieve and do what they want. I’m sure your answer will be more or less the same. But without us realising it, what others do determines our behaviour. In […]
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